My former BFF and I have not spoken in almost a year. I miss her a lot. I worked Sunday night and on the way home, I was bawling my eyes out. I feel so alone. I truly feel like I have no real friends. I don't have girlfriends that call me, or to hang out with, or someone I can really TALK to. Yes, I have connections through my blog on Tumblr and here, and on Facebook...but it seems so...unreal. I mean...I stayed off Facebook all through Lent and invited people to visit my blogs...no one really did.
When I get sick and am in the hospital, I don't get visitors or cards or flowers. I don't have people who call me to hang out or call just to say "hey".
My sister and I used to talk everyday. We share a lot of the same health problems, so we really bonded (even more so) during our struggles with that. But, once she got better and I did not, she told me one day "You know, if all you talk about it is how sick you are, no one will want to talk to you anymore". I took that as my hint that she didn't want to hear about what I was dealing with so I stopped talking to her about it. And...looky there! She barely calls me anymore and when we do talk, she doesn't ask how I am feeling.
Depression has a strong hold on me. It has for awhile. I feel so helpless. My financial situation is a mess. I am being sued by Methodist Hospital because of past due bills, I met with a bankruptcy attorney and am paying him twice a month to file for Chapter 7. I received another notice from another attorney today about a potential lawsuit against me. My job is so unsatisfying and depressing. It's depressing to think that my life has come to what it has. Yes, I have a wonderful daughter and a great husband, but there are days when I just to disappear. It pains me to think that there have been many times now that I think to myself "if I just run my car into that light pole, everything will just go away".
I know I need help. But, sadly...I can't afford it.
I just feel so sad. So sad, all the time. I don't know what to do anymore....
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